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well.. last week i went to a party and this wicked hot was comming onto me. and practically the whole party we talked, and by the end of the night we ended up making out. and he thought i was kool and got my number. i got his sn and he said for me to i/m him. so hes usually online with an away message up. and when he does come bak and i i/m him he puts up an away and then never responds bak! im gettin so confused, cause i thought we had sumthing and i wanted to hang out with him again. idk if i should just wait ? help me! thanx babe
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Well, this is hard. You don't know whether the guy is just really busy, or whether he's avoiding you.
I think the best thing to do is just be upfront - not demanding or pushy, just honest and real. You can msg him (because, after all, he WILL eventually get his msgs when he's not 'away' anymore) and say something like, 'Hey, I really had fun with you the other night. Are you interested in talking more, or maybe hanging out sometime?'
I'd leave it at that and see what happens. If there's no response, then try one more time. 'I sent you a msg about how much fun I had meeting you. I'm going to just assume you're really busy and don't have time to hang out more unless you msg me back.'
At that point, the ball is in his court. You don't want to look needy, and you also don't want to waste a ton of time pursuing a guy that isn't interested. He could just be shy, though, and maybe a direct msg about the situation is just what he needs.
Good luck.
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