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>>dazed n confused<<
im in 10th grade and this guy that likes me is in 7th grade. he is 14 and im 15 but he jus had a late b-day and got held back... so i mean technically he could b in the 8th grade or 9th grade easily and my bdays in june so i can like b in the 9th grade.. but thing is.. thats not how it happened. hes in 7th im in 10th.. everyone would think that i was the BIGGEST LOZER ever if i were to date him.. but he is hott sweet and i can talk to him... and if it wasnt for friends and all then i kno we would b dating... and jus recently he asked me to the movies and i said i would go. and he wants to do stuff at the moveies and im up to it but i jus dont want to make him think that if i kissed him it would mean something. i mean should i tell him that i cant date him or do nething till we both get out of college? should i ditch the guy? teh college thing sounds gay n all but.. when you get out of college and all you can date ppl that r 10 yr older than u and hes only 1 1/2 yrs younger than me. but im tryin so hard NOT to like him and its jus like im in a really frustrating situation!
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Right, that all makes sense. I wouldn't focus too much on the college thing, although I know what you're talking about. But I mean, c'mon, we both know by the time you go to college however many years from now you'll have long forgotten about this guy. Anyway! I wish I could say that the age difference isn't odd, but I'd be lying to say that it isn't a little weird for a sophomore to date a 7th grader, lol. This being the case, I'll leave that part up to you. If you like him and DO decide to go out with him, then you're just going to have to get over the fact that some people are going to look at the situation funny. They WILL get over it, and if you like this guy that much, then it might be worth it! The second part of that is, if you're willing to make out with the guy, why aren't you willing to date him?...and is it really fair to lead the guy on like that? Just struck me as a little odd.
But, it sounds like your real question is how to get over this guy...in which case you can disregard all that, and read this ;)...there are tons of guys your own age that you'd be more comfortable having as a boyfriend. Keep this one as a friend, and go for one of the other thousands your own age, lol.
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