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i really like this guy. we're friends with generally the same people and ive been seeing more and more of him at weekend parties. im always drunk at these parties, hoping that'll make it easier for him to come up and talk to me or me to him, but it doesnt seem to be working. he refuses to do anything with me because im drunk. i really really like him and im not giving up.
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Well if you really like him and if you're not gonna give up you might have to initiate something. The first idea that comes to mind is asking a mutual friend of yours to hang out so all 3 of you can hang out together in a different context other than partying. It'll allow him to get to know you on a more everday level instead of JUST seeing you at parties. I think he's smart for not doing anything with you when your drunk-itll make the relationship stronger if it's not based on a hook up while you are drunk. If you are really outgoing you could always approach him yourself at one of these parties, sober. Start talking to him and ask if he'd like to hang out sometime. Personally, i'm more the type of person who would want to hang out with him through a mutual friend cuz itd make me feel less akward. Anyways I really hope you do end up getting what you want and props to you for not giving up. Good luck and let me know how it goes :)
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