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awkward, but i need advice
ok, so i have been friends w/a guy for almost 4 years, and i've liked him almost 3 years....in 9th grade we almost both liked each other, but neither one of us had enough balls to say anything about it to anyone else, so it was a waste....then, my 10th grade yr,he told me he had a bf....and my life was shattered in 928374 million pieces....but i just kept all that inside and supported him, no matter what
anyways, almost 1 yr after he told me he was gay *11th grade* ((current grade)), i'm still madly in love w/this guy, and we're like best friends and all, but i know i could never be more than a best gf to him...and it's keeping me from getting a bf...cause i can't think straight...anyways, only reason i'm posting this is for the other people who feel the same way: this is for yall, so yall don't end up like me...anyways, what should i do, since i'm in love w/a boy who's not interested in girls, and i can't seem to find a different boyfriend.... thanks so much
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well awkward girl..i have a friend going through this too..so yea! Well, first off, this is kinda a win/lose situtation..b/c you can't really turn someone straight..i think..i mean if this has been his lifestyle for over a year..its REALLY hard to change. But the thing you gotta keep positive that..your still really good friends, right? Well then get him to hook you up with one of his friends whos interested in girls..and spread yourself out a little more b/c if all your seen with are gay guys..then they myte start to think "dyke" but thats a WHOLE nother issue..but just..keep an open mind..and date whoever comes along (sounds bad..but it'll work) once ppl see you in the mainstream dating thing..few words for the wise: People want..what they can't have..hope i hepled..or just rambled on a bunch! :)
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