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Gay bf
O-k i know this is a weird question and all but i had a nig crush ont his guy when i was like 16 and he was 18. we got together for a week and he told me the sweetest things but after 2 days he told me he was gay! he tells me tht he's confused and i don't kno what to do ! help!
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Well, I think what you need to do is not date this guy, but be supportive. It sounds like you genuinely liked each other, and if he is questioning his sexuality he could really use a good friend or two.
I think it's important to put aside any hurt feelings you might have - this guy must really trust you and value you as a person if he told you he thinks he is gay. He wants support, not a reaction of disgust or hurt.
I understand how frustrating it can be to like someone who won't ever really like you in a romantic way (for whatever reason), but at least he's been upfront and honest with you. Imagine if you'd dated for a year and THEN found out!
So..stay in contact. Be his friend. Who knows - maybe he is straight or bisexual and just needs time to figure himself out. But if he IS gay, you'll save yourself heartbreak now if you try to stop thinking of him as a crush.
You want (and deserve!) someone who will like you the same way you like them.
Good luck.
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