Everybody at school thinks I'm some innocent girl like I've never done anything bad, I need help on how to show people who I really am. I'm tired of trying to act perfect all the time for my reputation. I don't know how to show people that I am a party animal and that I am so far from being a goody goody. Nobody knows the real me. How do I show them who I really am without losing all my close friends?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SoUrLiMe11 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 10:40 pm: it sounds lke you have been living a dual life...all you can do is be yourself..**its better to be love for who you really are , then to be loved for some one you are not*** maybe there is a combination of personalities inside you..that way you can keep your old friends and make new ones....i know what you mean tho...a couple of years ago..i didnt know who i was...i felt like i was never my self ..like i was trying to climb this rope of perfectness that wasnt really me...but i kept climbing b/c i didnt know what else to do..then one day ...i let go of the rope...i showed who i really was inside....now things are better than ever...i still have some of my old friends but i have new friends too...no matter what age or what problems you have...you may grow distant from freinds and then be reunited later...all you can do is be you and hope for the best!! GOOD LUCK
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