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Okay.. I don't know exactly what to do.... I've been friends with this guy for almost 2 years now, and this summer we decided to take our friendship to a new level.. We decided to be "friends with benifits". Now, we didn't do anything until a week before school started, and even then all we did was hug. About 2 or 3 weeks after school started, we hung out one night, and we made out 3 times... Afterwards I told him that I liked him and it made things RLY weird between us. 2 weeks later he told me he doesn't like me like that. (He literally said it just like that)About 3-4 weeks ago, we went outside again, and he felt me up. 2 weeks after that, he asked out this girl that he's only known for 3 weeks, and he told me that he and her made out and whatnot, and it really makes me jealous. I honestly love him. Not puppy love, actual love, I know I do. I really want to be with him, but he "doesn't like me that way" and he has a girlfriend. He also told me that he can't keep going out with her because they live so far apart.... what should I do? Should I wait and see what'll happen? or should I tell him I still really like him? God help me please! I'm 15/f btw.. also, how can I tell if he was just doing all of this (making out, feeling me up) just for kicks, or if he really likes me?
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hey there. I sympathize with you. I really do. You guys were best friends before, and then you decided to become friends with benefits. hmm ... and you fell fopr him but he doesn't feel the same way ... (I'm sorry for repeating this, I'm trying to sort it out in my head). In times like these you wish you had a spell to make him feel the same way right? Well, this friends with benefits thing .. i know a lot of people who do the same thing, but i don't really agree with it. I'm not saying what you are doing is wrong, but someone always ends up hurt during these kinds of relashinships. It's almost impossible for you to be intimate with someone and not have feelings for them. What I think you should do, is slow down on the intimate part of the friendship, and work on the whole, you two being best friends again. Flirt a little bit, but don't be all over him. Show yourself a little bit more and maybe he'll become interested. It seems he has already solved the problem of the girlfriend in that way, so that's over. I believe that if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. I know your probley confused right now, and sad, i mean, who can blame you, your in love with someone who doesn't feel the same way ... but i hope everyting works out, this is confusing for me now. lol
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