Question Posted Thursday November 11 2004, 9:10 pm
im 13.female. my best friend (a guy) was at my other best friends house and we were laying on her bed and we were watching a movie. Well he put his arms around me. We were covering up..just me n him. My other friend was talking on the phone in her moms room..well anyway we were covering up and he told me that his feet were still cold...so he put his feet where my feet were and were like rubbing his feet on mine..then about 15 minutes later, my hands were like down where his hands were and he grabbed my hand and then we started holding hands. Well we both had to leave at the same time and he walked me home..we live close to each other so he walked me home..when we came to my house...he asked to use my bathroom and i said of course..i went in my room to get something..and he came in and he laid in my bed and he was like flirting with me and i was flirting back..so like i was gunna go change in the bathroom and he said no change in here and so stupid me..changed in my room and then i was done getting changed and he told me i was wicked hott and he wanted to be more than just friends..and i said i cant do that. he was being so sweet...i love sweet talkers..so then we started to like makeout..then we just laid there..and he was like begging me..i kept along with me original answer..he went home and called me and he kept asking me..he keeps asking me..he always flirts with me and i cant take it ne more..i mean i love him..but should i play hard to get or...no..?
Aw, Thats so cute that you cuddled with him !!
but why did you change in front of him? That leaves a very bad image to his mind. And its very disrespectful for yourself. :( You should not play hard to get because then he will eventually give upp on you and 99.9% of the time when we are playing hard to get with guys and they give up on us we become all depressed. I play hard to get when a guy likes me and I absdolutely don't like him. You shouldn't play head games with him. Next time he asks you out, say yes. And if you say no, don't do anything that shows you guys are more than friends. Its not very nice. And if you look at it from another angle its similar to using someone. But if you love him, go for him. You will be so0o0o0o0 glad you did.
Holla acha Costa Rican :)
xo0x adriana
P.S sorry it took 2 days to answer, I have been very busy lately. But let me know how it goes with your man. ;) [ x0x_surfergirl_x0x's advice column | Ask x0x_surfergirl_x0x A Question ]
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