Hello...ok..umm..awhile back,me and this guy,lets call him "bob" from work started likin each other but we never really talked that much cuz hes the shy type of guy.My friend asked bob why he doesnt really talk to me and he said because hes talkin to somebody else and it would be wrong so I was like alright..fine with me and the girl he was talkin to is in my 3rd period so I asked her if she liked him and she said no i dont like him at all!so they stopped talkin.Well...there is this other guy at work that I'am real good friends (his name is Josh)with and hes also real good friends with "bob".Well...the other day I was walkin outside to go to my car when I was on break and Josh yelled my name and "bob"motioned for me to come over there so I walked over there and Josh said "my boy wants to talk to u"and I was just like whatever and he goes..Do u not even care to know who it is?I just stood there and "bob"was leaning forward and ACTING like he was playin with the radio and Josh pointed to "bob"and I just kinda ignored it and my friend went up and "bob"and asked him if he was gonna start talkin to me and he just kinda sat there and smiled a little bit.Josh said he wants me to talk to "bob" but he's the one who doesnt talk to me!What kinda game is he tryin to play?How do I talk to him more and get to know him more?and I got another problem....Would it be wrong to try to talk to "bob" a little bit and get to know him if I'am talkin to somebody else also?I'am SOOOO sorry its SOOO long!I need an answer ASAP!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ElementaryHustler answered Sunday November 7 2004, 11:23 pm: Sounds like somebody has a crush. I deffinetly think that "bob" has a crush on you. Who knows they are guys, they do play games. Just if he is playing games there are soo many ways to pay them back. You can humilate the shit out of them if they are playing with you. And yeah it is okay to talk to "bob" if you are talking to someone else. It's not like your married. Your single and free do what you want. But once you start talking seriously with one of the guys you might want to lay off on one of the guys, that would just be sending mixed signals. Thanks alot sweetie. Good luck.
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