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Question Posted Thursday November 4 2004, 8:58 pm

so yes. Last weekened me and my X boyfriend hit a few things off. i really really like him -- and i still have feelings left over from when we went out... one problem -- at the time i had a boyfriend. on halloween i broke up with him because i knew things wouldn't be fair to him if i didn't, but i didn't tell him that i did this to him because it would be hard for him to take, i mean the poor kid had watery eyes when i broke up with him (in person -- very hard!!) so yes. He still likes me -- a lot might i add -- his profile quoted-- "the things we could do you cant imagine, all u have to do is say yes" just its in all of those symbols and stuff... and hes asking me out again sometime this week. 2 of my closest friends know about me and my x boyfriend, and think i should go out back out with my boyfriend, and just keep things going with the other guy on the weekends. this doesnt sound like a good idea to me -- but i really like my x and they say that he'll never know and that its the perfect plan -- tell me what you think i should do...

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Ask_Anything answered Saturday November 6 2004, 6:05 pm:
well if you dont love your boyfriend anymore- i say this to everyone who asks this kinda stuff ;) - do him the favor and BREAK UP! no one wants to be with someone that doesnt care about them. if you broke up with your boyfriend, then it doesnt matter what you do. but if you DO still like your boyfriend you need to decide between your ex and him. dont get into the switching off type deals- your life will be so pressured and uneasy. dont do anything that makes you not at ease. dont make any decisions right away- think about why you/your ex broke up before.. was it because he didnt stay true? was it too distant of a relationship? think about all of it before you commit to one or the other. it sounds like you love both but just cant chooose. all i can say is do what would make you the happiest. no one says that either relationship will last forever- so make the best of the two guys and if you need to- just be really good friends with one. im sorry your stuck in the middle of it all... hopefully it'll all get better soon =] -ask_anything

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