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cheats and liers
hey guys.... ok... i have sorta been going out with this guy... like... he introduces me as his girlfriend but he wont officialy ask me out... lol... ne way... this past saturday... at a party... i was REALLY drunk and kissed another guy... my sorta boyfriend (ben) got really mad and really wants to beat the guy (JJ) up... but ben and i were talking on the phone rite after he found out (i was going to tell him... but some bitch beat me to it) and he kept on saying "i dont kno y im not breaking up with you..."and kept saying how pissed he was... but then he didnt call me all weekend... so i am really afraid he is gonna break up with me... this is the first boyfriend i have had tat i really truly like... and yes... i totally fucked myself over... i kno... but i guess this leads to a couple of questtions... (1) do you think he will break up with me? and (2) how can i talk to him and work this out?... i really like him not only as a boyfriend but a really close, good friend to... it would totally suck to lose him... help me please
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ok well..tough situation...i will answer ur questions first..
1.) umm..he may break up with you...in my opinion..he shouldnt..i mean..its acohol...it does things to everyone..and yea what u did was bad..but you wouldnt have done it if you were sober...it was neccesarily your fault, maybe you shouldnt have been drinking if you knew something like that could of possibly happened..its just your luck that it did...now you have learned a lesson..i hope you wont do it again..and he has to understand that..i can deff. relate to how he feels, because think of him doing it..how would you feel? maybe that will teach you better...
2.) like i said..tell him ur really sorry (it may or may not help)..explain to him that you were drunk, and you dont want to lose him and its something you wouldnt ever do if you were sober...
goodluck and keep writing :-)
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how can he break up with you if he has another gf? he is stupid.
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your confusing you just said he isent rly your boyfriend so how can he break up with you and just say you didnt kno what you were doin i think you kno what to say tho
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You need to talk to him and say that you were drunk, and you messed up and ask him to forgive you. Ask him if he's gonna break up with you, we wont know..good luck
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