Question Posted Thursday October 28 2004, 12:03 am
i have been with my man for three yrs, im 38 and he is older. i want sex alot as that is what i like but not him. i have emailed him and told him this as i am too shy to say it to him for the most part. we have not had sex for three yrs. i am at the end of my rope dont say leave him cause i cant afford to do so financially. i do everything or at least 99 percent of the relationship he spends all his time online playing games mostly what do you ppl suggest i do i am serious about having an affair once maybe twice if i like it
thanks for any advice
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kristen22 answered Thursday October 28 2004, 3:26 am: OK, tough one....Im going to assume you all live together, {kinda throwed us all of sayin you E-mailed him...lol} You havent had sex in 3 years...maybe he either cant {Viagra anyone?} or is getting it somewhere else? Find the answers to these 2 questions, and then decide from there what to do. Your a woman, you don't need a man to support you. Get up! If your job doesnt pay what you need, find one that does! then you can get it anywhere you want it, as much as you want it, from anyone you want. But dont have a affair if maybe the only problem was that he needed help {viagra wise}...Talk to him, be honest, find out what the deal is..And, most importantly, keep it real. [ kristen22's advice column | Ask kristen22 A Question ]
Sherry answered Thursday October 28 2004, 1:26 am: Drag him off the computer and lecture him and make him listen. If you have to strap him to a chair, do it. You need to tell him that your relationship will be over pretty soon if he doesnt get his act together. You could even take away the computer from him, just take out all the wires and hide them...hope I helped, good luck! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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