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hey! ok..im a junior and i've been going out with this guy john since he was a freshman and i was a sophmore.. so thats like a year right? and im starting to get worried that he's more interested in the new freshman than he is me..i really wanna talk to him about this but i dont want him to think i dont trust him..because yeah..we've had trust issues before.. any ideas on how to help? i was thinking about talking to a few freshman and seeing what they say he's talking with them about..
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Yeah that sounds like a good plan. Maybe don't tell them he's your boyfriend and be like "Oh yeah John flirts a lot" and see what they say. Of course they might tell John about you saying that. If you've had trust issues then maybe you <b> shouldn't <b> be trusting him but if you do and you don't want him to think you don't...them maybe you could say smthn like "Are any of your friends going out with freshmen" Becuase if his friends are..then he'll be more interested in them too =/ And if you really think he is interested in freshmen then you can say smthn like.. "Don't think I don't trust you...I really really do. But if you are going to be flirting with freshmen and other girls...then I really don't want to take our relationship any farther if I'm just going to get hurt" He's been your boyfriend for a year..you should def. be able to talk to him about this. And you have a right to know if he likes other girls..I mean your his girlfriend. I would talk to him about it..and if he gets mad and makes a big deal outta it..just tell him you're scared of loosing him and you trust him completely. Thats all you can really do
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