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I`m usually not the one to ask for advice, but I`m just not sure how to handle this situation.
Okay, I dated this guy, A, for a little over a year. I loved him so much, but we had our differences and we just couldn`t make it work. We ended on good terms & still talked every week or so, just like friends. I was upset one night & we talked & he ended up telling me he had been out with my best friend of 3 years that night. It`s totally out of character for Jenn, my best friend. So, I e-mailed her & explained how I felt, but she tried to blow it off & acted like there was nothing going on. I`ve been told otherwise, by someone that`s close to Jenn & A. I was told that Jenn liked A, but he didn`t like her. So, after she e-mailed me back, I never contacted her & she hasn`t tried to contact me. I`m REALLY hurt, because she was my BEST friend for 3 years & I love her to pieces. I haven`t talked to her in over two months now & I don`t know what to do.. It`s hard to talk to her when she just blows it off, like it`s nothing. & It seems that she doesn`t care because it`s been 2 months & she hasn`t even ATTEMPTED to talk to me about it.. Should I just forget about it & let my best friend go? Or should I just totally confront her and be harsh? HELP!
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She's dumping you for a guy. Typical of most girls. I know i'm guilty of it. But what sucks is that it's your ex-boyfriend. Hmm...you should definitly confront her about it but don't be too harsh. I think you should work to save the friendship and bitching her out isn't gonna help. Just get together and dish it all out...don't yell or accuse...just calmly sort out the truth. Good luck!
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