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Best Friend... or something more.
I've never aksed a question..
Anyway, I met my best friend in 2nd grade.. which I wasn't friendw with her then... We became good friends just a couple years ago. We met up and BOOM we were like instantly friends. I've never had a friend better than her. Well, over time our friendship has kinda evolved into sincere love. Not crush love, but love like I can honestly see myself marrying her. My internal problem-I want to have more experiances than just with her. SHould I ask her out now? I'm afriad it might ruin our friendship if something bad happens. I really don't want to limit myself to just her, not till I'm pretty experianced in sex and things. I just want your opinions on things. Wait till college? Just state any kind of opinions! THANX!
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I think you should tell her how you feel,and ask her how she feels about you. Friendship is the most important relationship. If ya'll were meant to be together it will happen.
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Well, my best friend and I have known each other since we were 12. We're 16 now. I love him soo much. He's an older brother, friend, nuisance, and....my boyfriend. I feel the same way. I don't want to be stuck with him because I might miss a great experience or I feel that I'm growing up too fast. My advice is this: Go out with her. Tell her that you really like her. Spill your heart out, or write your feeling down. If she loves you, she'll understand. Ask her how she feels. If you don't want to be "locked down", let her know that in intervals, you'll need space. Space makes you realize how much she means to you. Don't take her for granted though. Don't expect her to come back whenever you want. Taking breaks in your relationship with is important. Soon you'll realize that being with her and taking space breaks will be much more rewarding than shopping around with other females that you're maybe just attracted to. Hope I helped.
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follow your heart.....if she is your bestfriend she will still be there....i met my bestfriend in 1st grade n we've been friends ever since i love him as if he was my brother n would do anything for him no matter what has happend he has always been there for me......that is wat a true bestfriend will do. if you experience somethings (not with her) thats fine.....if she isnt your friend for it then she wasnt your friend to begin with....just be careful dont rush into anything with this girl
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ask her out! if u wanna spend ur life with her hen start now bc theres no better time than the present. maybe she feels the same way. talk to her.... things could work out. ~steph~
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If you think of going out with her as 'limiting' yourself, then you aren't ready for a relationship with her. It'd be better if you had your 'experiences' now, instead of dating her, then dumping her because you feel you're limiting yourself.
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well i meen if u like her then tell her how u feel.... i dont know how it will effect ur normal every day relationship... but if shes a good friend she'll still be ur friend even if she doesnt love love u.
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