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iiS hE pLayiiNq qaMesz wiiT me?
I'm in love with a guy that has girls practically begging for him. He says he likes me too and I write him love notes EvErYdAy..but of course the typical flirty african american popular boy never writes back..and he always flirts with me and we act like a couple. i really like him and he says he really likes me too, i always ask him-"why aren`t we a couple" but its always the same answer...that "he`z been in love before and the girl cheated on him and now he can`t really trust" or "he got too many things on his mind" yet..we hang out and act like we're married or somethinq. I mean-i just wanna wake up every morninq knowing that he`z mine...what should i say to him? i`ve already told him how i feel
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If you really want to get this guy then you need to back off. Seriously, if you're writing him love notes already, EvErYdAy... you're giving him too much attention. If you want to grab his attention and MAKE HIM take notice, keep flirting with him for sure... but you need to play a little 'harder-to-get'. Let him know that other guys have been asking you out... certainly don't write him so much unless you're getting the kind of feedback you want from him. Give him the impression that HE would be lucky to date YOU and you'll probably notice a change in his behavior. Give him space and time to start missing you, and he'll start coming to you. Don't make it too easy for him. Personally, I can't stand to be with a girl if she's not a challenge at least some of the time. I think a lot of guys out there would agree. And I'm sure that you don't want to be considered 'easy' either, by anyone's standards.
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There is nothing more you can say. You were mature and open about your feelings. It is time for him to mature and I can't guarantee he will come around.
Just let him know he can trust you. After such a bad experience like his, it can be difficult to earn someone's trust.
If he doesn't come around, then you just move on to someone who is willing to mature and be open .
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ok first of all..let him know that ur not his other "girlfriend" that cheated on him..and tell him that if he really knew u, then he would kno that u wude never cheat on him!!! Tell him that he's either ur boyfriend, or JUST a friend..and hopefully he'll choose the first one. im sure itll work out:) let me kno how it goes!!
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NIKKI
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you should say: i like you and you like me we both know that. so i won't be like your x. i would never cheet on you and expecily you. make sure he knows that you want to go ferther then just being friend.say: you say u have a lot on you mind but i know thats not true. i know you want to be with me. so come on wat you say? then see wat he says then and tell me
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