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how do i have a boyfriend without my mom knowing?? because i really like this guy but i dont know how to go out with him without my mom interferring. also how do you ask guys out? and what do you do on dates (like you personally)?
im almost 14 (like 13 3/4) and a girl
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well if you really feel you dont want to tell her, it wont be that easy. if you want to take the chance and "bend" some rules... i guess you could go to the movies with a friend, and have your boyfriend meet up with you. or just say the boy is only a friend.. your parents cant have anything against a guy that is just a friend. id recommend though to tell her, it's going to seem reallly weird, but it will hopefully make things easier. before you worry about telling your mom- find out if you are even going to have a relationship with the guy. whats the use in worrying about your parents if you arent even going out with him yet? and if you do go out with him- wait a little while before telling your parents so you know the relationship will last more than a week. usually guys ask the girl out- but if you plan on asking the guy out, then just casually ask it. id suggest finding out if he likes you too- because you dont want the wrong answer aka no... but if he likes you, find a moment where you two can talk alone and just say something under the lines.. "this is really hard, but i like you a lot and i was wondering if we could be more than friends"... sounds really cheesey.. but it should work if he likes you! ;) on dates, usually kids our age go to the movies, mall, any kinds of fair type events, really anything you both are into. me personally- ive only gone on group date type things, nothing one on one ... so i cant answer that for you... but good luck with the guy and your parents! =]- ask_anything
PS: if you plan to tell your mom, just remind her it was hard to tell her, and that you dont want her to tell anyone [unless you dont mind] ... im sure your mom will be really happy if you decide to trust her enough to tell her. but the choice is yours!
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