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hey emily. you dont know me but this question is really personal. ok so everyday i wonder if i am ever going to start my period. i am almost 16, in Febuary ill be 16. so heres my reasoning. when i was like 12 i used one of those back massagers bc i duno we got one and i abused it and used it somewhat as a vibrator i guess?? i mean not exactly not like really hard but like a little. and its kind of addicting. im really scared, i wasnt aware of what could happen. i really hope that i will get my period bc i want to have kids and a family when i get older. dont get me wrong im not a slut at all. i've never had a boyfriend and i kind of keep to myself. i mean i have alot of friends but like i've never even kissed a guy:( but its so i was just wondering if you think that maybe i will get my period. i really hope so i feel so alone. can you please help me? thank you!
*hilary
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It varys with all girls as to what age they can get their period. It can be as young as 8 or 9 like my friend did or as old as 21 like my aunt did. No, really she did get her period when she was 21. Using that massager as something to masturbate with isn't really going to affect when you get your period. Masturbating is masturbating. You're actually really lucky to not have your period yet because, trust me, it's NOT fun. Also, when you're involved in alot of sports and you're active, it can make you get your period when you're older, or, when you do get your period and then start becoming active, you'll get it very irregularly. My friend is extreamly active, she plays soccer, basketball, she's a cheerleader a dancer and she does track. She get's her period about every 4-5 months. If you're really worried about it, talk to your mom or the next time you go to the doctor, ask him/her about it. It's perfectly normal. There's a senior in my school that still hasn't gotten her's yet. She's 17. Just calm down, don't worry about it. You'll get it eventually. On to the situation about guys, when you see a guy that you like, try to strike up a convo with him about sports, music, hobbies... stuff like that. Always try to smile when you're around people. Also, don't try to be something that you're not, like don't change who you are and how you act just because of a guy. Most of the guys I know just want a girl that they can hang out with and that can be themself around them, like a really well rounded, down to earth girl. When you do have your first kiss, trust me, it will be worth the wait. Hope this helped!
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