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hi....i'm so confused.I have three guys that like me....one of then is my friends ex, one of them is obsessed with me and one of them started liking me this summer............I don't know what to do.....I'm going to homecoming adn I don't know who to go with....one of the guys goes to capo, one of them is gonna be gone during homecoming and the other i don't like....My friends have a problem with my friends ex b cuz he broke her heart and now comes to me so i can go out with him......I'm thinking about doing something stupid.....I've also been through sexual harassment and rape and so i know...but i'm sooo confused...plz help!!!
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what exactly is the situation? Are any of them kind of <I>pressuring</I> you to go to the homecoming with you? If they are, you have to really tell them face to face that it is YOUR choice who you are going with. This is your life, and come on, who are they to tell you what to do? From the way you said it, I'm guessing the guys are one of your valuable friends. I know how you feel: if you reject any of them, you'd be losing good friend at the same time..If you are feeling like this,my advice would be not to have a date at all. Try group dating,which is just friends hanging out together. This way you wouldnt exactly have date, but just people to hang with. If they seem like they want to ask you out and you feel pressured to CHOOSE a boy, i'd advice..just follow your heart. Cheating, in this case, will definitely not work, so dont try to go out with them all. If you dont feel like you dont like any of them more than a friend, just act like you dont notice their interest.If they ask you out, pretend you didnt hear/understand and feign confusion.This works.
I am truly sorry if my advice sounded too assuming, its just that i cant really figure out whats happening with vague details.
i hope my advice helped :) Good Luck
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