I'm a 17 y/o male currently a junior in highschool. There's this girl I've known in 7th grade and she moved somewhere after that and now she attends my highschool. We talk now and she's real nice and it's all good except now I've noticed how real attractive she is. What are some things that I can do to make her attracted to me the same way I am to her or anything to get us to the point beyond friends?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? nicegirl90247 answered Monday October 11 2004, 7:58 pm: Well, you can't make someone have those feelings for you. It's all chemistry. But you can do your best to show her the great person you are. Find out what your common interests are. For example, if you like the same kind of movies, invite her to one that you would both like, but make it casual. Maybe invite another couple along to break the ice. Then go out for pizza or whatever after the movie and talk about it. Generally speaking, girls like guys who are sincere, considerate, and don't try to show off or act macho. Also, take a sincere interest in her feelings and ideas, and don't try to be something you're not. In other words, be yourself. Tell her when you think she looks nice, but don't overdo it. For example "That sweater is a great color on you." And "Your hair looks really pretty today." Stuff like that. No ogleing or comments about her body. Maybe you could study together if there is a subject you, she, or both of you are struggling with. Good luck! [ nicegirl90247's advice column | Ask nicegirl90247 A Question ]
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