okay i had this party the otha night and my friends were suppose to come ova ... 4 of them were coming!! 2 of them said 2 or 3 days in advance told me they could not come!! thn the day of the get together .. the other 2 called me one of them said that they got sick and that they weren't even planning to work ... i called her to see how she was doing but when i called her house her sister said said she went to work and that she won't be back until late!! the other friend of mine he said all during the week i am going to ur house and then he called me the night of the thing and told me he couldn't cuz he was going out with his otha friend! i have mixed emotions on this and can't believe they totally ditched me!! what should i do?? and what should i say to them??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? adviceguy answered Sunday October 10 2004, 5:36 pm: You should tell your friends how you feel. No one likes being ditched and it is a very rude thing to cancel out on someone at the last minute. Like I have mentioned so many times before, your friends will never know the way you feel unless you share it with them. Being really mad or rude while talking at your friends won't get you very far. Sharing your feelings like a mature person will get you a positive response from your friends ( such as an apology) Communication is the key.
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