I have a boyfriend, that I have been going out with for almost a month...let's call him "Tim". I barely ever see him and he lives in another town. I flirt with my friends a little too much sometimes, and last night I was a little too close to my one friend. I didn't do anything majorly bad, but I still feel bad about it. But I don't know if I like "Tim" as much as I should. I don't like my friend...but I'm still not sure about everything. And the problem is, one of my best friends, "Mary", is good friends with "Tim". If she knew about this, and if he found out, I don't know what I'd do. Should I break up with "Tim" or give it some time and see what happens?
Signed,
LoveInOhio
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Farewellmadison answered Saturday October 9 2004, 11:56 pm: Dear loveinohio,
I know how the long distance thing goes. I dont think Ive ever had a good close distance relationship. Because the people here suck, but thats besides the point. Do you talk to "Tim"? I know that the long distance communication is hard. Trust me! My phone bill was close to $400 last month. If you dont talk to "Tim", but you still like him, then dont break up with him. Because it will work out! Although, you have to tell him about your friend that you were close to. Keeping it from him will just hurt him in the long run. My friends are backstabbers. Theyre all close with my boyfiend and they tell him every little thing that I do. But I tell him when I fuck up, or when I think its something that he needs to know, because hes very understanding when the truth comes from me. If "Mary" does that to you then shes really not a good friend to you. Its really freaky how much we have in common. Im really pulling for you and Tim! Good Luck, and please, keep the love(or just like) alive.
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