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Well, I had this boyfriend for 4 months, and then he broke up with me for another girl....but 3 days later, came back to me and we were together for another month...then he broke up with me for another girl...thing is though, with this girl on his mind or not, hes been doing things with me, still seeing me...then recently, I told him that i didnt want to do the "friends with benefitss" anymore, and told him the only way i would is if i knew it was real, and if he really liked me...i didnt wanna feel cheap anymore...i also told him i had strong feelings for him and still wanted to be with him...NOW, he hasnt called me in over a week, avoids me, hides in his car so he wont havr to talk to me long...like he just got what he wanted and now pushed me aside...i feel so hurt, and so used, and i still really like him...but my questions are to you is,
1. Do you think he still has feelings for me but i scared him away?
2. Does it seem like he ever ad feelings for me to begin with?
3. WHAT SHOULD I DOOOOOO
if u can answer this SHIT that goes on in my life, i will be forever grateful...
thank you, so much...:-*
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First off..im extremely sorry that it took me so long to answer..i had a crazy week. Well..you know the guy better..if he tends to run away from things and cant express his feelings..then yes its a possibility that maybe hes scared. BUT i also think he could be avoiding you because he wants to move on from you..and like u said..got wat he wanted. Im sorry you feel used...i know the feeling but i think its possible.Yes i think he had feelings for you to begin with...dont think he didnt because i think he did..but feelings change unfortunately..and now i think hes interested in this girl. I would (for closure) definately talk to him and find out whats going on..tell him that if he wants to end it just to be straight foward with you..and not to hide or run away. Tell him you want to know and you dont wanna be left in the dark. You never know...he could be confused and needs to figure out which on of u he wants..but make sure u tell him "its either me or her" dont let him toy with you. If he choses the other girl..dont feel bad..he`ll do the same thing to this new girl eventually and i know you`ll find someone so much better. i hope i helped... :) good luck
-melissa
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