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me and my best friend dwell over this one guy. I now have a boy friend and hes really nice and cool but i still like this other guy. Now my best friend is going out with him and dont get me wrong im happy for her, but he talks to me about her behind her back and never calls to her and doesnt talk her and its been about 2 weeks now of ignoring here... but little does she know i talk to him eveyr night and he calls me all the time and doesnt answer the phone when she calls... he tells me that he loves me and tells me that he wants me to break things off with my boy friend so he can break things off with her. And he said if i stay with my boy friend thats fine he just said that he'll break up with her anyways and win be some how. And i don't know what to do because in the end i could lose a best friend, or keep a best friend and have the guy i dont want, or have the boyfriend ive been waiting for my whole life even since we broke things off last, and lose my best friend... HELP!
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well id first say, if you dont have feelings for your boyfriend you have right now- you might as well do him the favor of breaking it off. nobody wants a girlfriend who likes someone else ;) it's good you are happy for your friend, but i can see why you feel awkward about their relationship. this guy should definitly break it off with her if he doesnt love her, as you should with your boyfriend. if your best friend and this guy never hang out or talk- she shouldnt be missing much. but if your best friend is crushed, DO NOT go out with this boy for a while. hang out as really good friends [but spend just as much time with your best friend] and once your best friend has moved on, then start the relationship with the guy. that way she will have moved on and shouldnt care. [and this may be a while, so bare with it]. just dont pick and choose all at once. do one thing at a time, and go slow. this might either take a long time, or short- depending on the feelings of everyone in your situation. if you have more questions about my answer- please dont hesitate to ask again. good luck with your problem! =] -ask_anything
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