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older guy?


Question Posted Wednesday September 29 2004, 5:03 pm

I met this guy that my friend jeni and her fiance roger wanted me to met. so i was ok it couldn't hurt so i ended meeting him september 19th(two saturday ago). He's 21 and i'm 17. so we all ended up going bowling. I talked i him a little bit.
This past saturday we all went to roger's house to watch movies. Jeni and i ended up getting there by 7pm and we did our homework until 8-8:30pm. We finally started watching movies at about 8:30-9pm. We watched star wars. John(the guy i met) started explaining the movie(s) of star wars since i had never seen any of them before. Which was very sweet of him to do? anyway i didn't get home until almost midnight. This time i got to actually talk to john more and kinda flirt/goof off with him cuz i was much more comfortable with him. Do u think we're dating, seeing each other, or being friends? What do u think about the age difference(17 and 21)? should i tell my parents about him (i haven't told them anything yet!)? how do u think the relationships going? you can also im me @ Lady4Marmalade on my aol instant messenger or email @ Lady4Marmalade@aol.com


Thanks Crystal


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xo__LiSHY answered Thursday September 30 2004, 6:24 am:
First off: How could you know nothing about Star Wars?! *l0l* Sorry i had friends who wer obsessed w/ it and they forced me to watch it all the time ((NO WE ARE NOT GEEKS)).

Okay on to your questions!

1) Do u think we're dating, seeing each other, or being friends? ---> I would personaly say that since you've only hung out like twice, you're still in the friends mode. But i'd say if you hang out w/ him, like, 4 more times and things keep going great, then i'd say that you guys would be sorta seeing each other.

2) What do u think about the age difference(17 and 21)? ---> 17 and 21...4 years isn't bad. It's a tad more than i would prefer but age shouldn't matter. do what you believe is right!

3) should i tell my parents about him (i haven't told them anything yet!)? ---> If there's anything i've learned in the past, it's don't hide boyfriends from parents! It's the most stressful thing in the world! They'll find out eventualy so why tell them right now?

4) how do u think the relationships going? --> Sounds like it's going just fine! you guys are getting comfortable w/ each other and are interacting which is really good. Just keep at it and in no time you should be more than friends!

Thanks for the question! Hope i helped!

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