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i have a friend lets call her janis. janis has been acting really strangley lately. like leaving me out of our three person group by talking about classes she has with the other person so i cant really say anything, judging everything i say, constantly talking about things like global warming and other things like that to sound smart. I always thought she was smart so she doesnt need to do that kind of thing. the other day she even said something about mt.kilamanjaro but spelled it kilamanjari and i corrected her and she said she typed it that way just to see if i would catch it. i have another best friend jared and he was an old boyfriend of janis last year, she never acted like she was that hurt that he dumped her until now where now she acts like he killed her mother. anyway when she said that thing about kilmanjaro (sorry this is really hard to follow )was online and after she said that i told her she wasnt acting like the old janis and signed off. now she won't even look at me. what should I do? I want my old friend back....:-)
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You need to tell your friend, what you told us-you know she's smart, she dosn't have to pretend.Ask her why she is flipping out about an old boyfriend, when they broke up long ago. Just ask her why she is having a sudden change of heart in everything.
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Tell her what you ment by it and why you feel the way you do, tell her shes changing and its not necessarily for the better, tell her you just want her back the way she used to be
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ok this is a very tough situation. But really try to confront her about it..or write her a note. Just give the note to her while ur passing her in the hall of something..i garuntee u that if she does get a note from u..she WILL read it. pple these days are too nosy. anywayz, try ur best to talk to her..first u wanna tell her how good of a friend she is and that u dont wanna lose her..then move on with the negatives about the way she has been acting..then go on from there.
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