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I am best friends with this guy. Hes really nice, smart, funny, etc etc but very perverted in a greatly amusing way. We spend a lot of time together talking and stuff and its really great! I know we both like it ... however, he really likes this girl and she is going out with another kid whom neither of us really like. I've tried to tell him that the girl he likes really likes her boyfriend so he shouldnt keep hoping because I dont want him to get hurt, Im not trying to be selfish or anything and some of my friends have basically told him Im like in love with him but hes still completely clueless. I dont know but Im not sure whether to tell him .. or to just keep it a secret. A lot of people ask us whether were going out cause were together all the time in school and after school too and one of my friends has told him that we would be really nice together and were just best friends having fun. I mean who doesnt want to kiss their best friend? =) hehe You are really good at this sort of thing, so thanks in advance!
=/ love sucks
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first off- thanks for the compliment ;)!! ooh having your boyfriend be your past best friend is good... and bad. or so ive heard. haha he sounds like a pretty nice guy... im a little misleaded by the whole perverted in an amusing way though.. haha by the way you said it, it sounds like its an okay thing... ;)? well if he's hung up on some other girl he cant have, maybe you should open up and tell him you have feelings for him past best friends. dont do this online, or he wont get the same effect as in person- where he can see you say it, with feeling, not just little smiley faces online ... ;) he'll need to get used to the idea at first... but maybe he will realize what's right in front of him for once. of course, if you want to stay the same relationship concept you have now- and not risk it by getting involved, there is always "friends with benefits" which fits your "who doesnt want to kiss their best friend?" haha but i see where you're coming from! love does suck, but you have to play the game of it, which is always more tricky than you want! for my advice, if you could see yourself with him [actually picture this, it does help], then you should tell him [in person]... or wait until he gets over this other girl, then tell him. that part is up to you! if you are having big doubts, just wait it out. your gut instinct is always good, so follow it as well. sorry this was so long and confusing! ask me some more questions if you need them asked... ;) i appreciate your compliment a lot!! hope things go your way- =] -ask_anything
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