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too young?
Hey okay i am pretty young ot be having sex and all but im sure its not wrong to be thinking about it. especially since i have a boifriend whom i really think i LOVE ALOT. ive never even liked any of my boifriends n have never said i love you too them unless im sure i really do. n i really think i do. but at my age if i really think i love them that much do u think giving it a try would even be okay? im 13 n yes i deffinitly want to but i never knew if even then that much would make it acceptable..do u think its okay? because we have talked about it before
xOx HaNa
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Well, I think you are perfectly normal to be thinking about sex at your age. As to whether or not I think you should be having sex, that's another matter. I think if you have to ask another person's opinion, then you probably aren't ready.
I don't like passing judgements on people, but you asked directly, so here goes:
I understand that you feel love for your boyfriend, but I can GUARANTEE you that each person you fall in love with will deepen the experience. What you feel as love now is right for you in this time and relationship, but there will come a time when you can't believe that you thought you were in love now. As you get older, you bring more of your experience and knowledge to love and relationships, and they get bigger and better.
I don't think sex is smart at your age. The younger you have sex, the higher your chances for cervical cancer. Also, you are letting yourself in for extra years of worry about pregnancy, diseases, and heartbreak.
Sex can totally change a relationship, and it often does not change it for the better when you are this young. Pressures you would not have dreamed of will arise, and unless you are completely confident in your ability to, say, deal with an unwanted pregnancy or a life-altering disease, I think it's best to stay away from sex.
Nothing will ever be as sweet as your first kissses and experiences with love and sexuality - why rush them?
Hope I helped.
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