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Yeah, i'm creepy
I know this is really weird, but its really important to me to at least hear out what other people think about this:
Last year, i fell in head over heals love with one of my teachers. i really loved him. he made me feel like a better person, and i would do anything to make him happy (not stupid anything, but you know what i mean). he means the world to me. well i graduated, and i miss him like shit. i miss him so much. i go back and see him, and i'm with him ever chance i get. it's not that i care what my peers think of me or anything, but my friends get scared/nervous whenever they hear that i was with him or what ever. i want to be able to talk to them about this, but i'm not sure they'd listen. what do you think, and what do i do? Is there something like mently wrong with me, because it feels that way.
sorry this is so long . . .
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That's a very difficult question...considering ur only 15 I'd say forget about the teacher. I'm not saying he's a child molestar or anything but child molestar know exactly what to say and make u feel great just so u will sleep with them. Then again my "aunt" (my mom's best friends who cant have kids so we consider her our aunt) married her teacher and they're a happy couple! but then again that was when she was older and not so naive. I understand how u feel. 15's a crazy hormonal stage...ur gonna like anyone who can comfort u and trust me older men r might fine lol. just forget about him and hey mayb if u guys meet up with ur say 20 then mayb ur meant to be! but now try to find urself a boyfriend of ur own age to keep ur mind off him. good luck, and don't do anything u will regret! :)
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guys perspective: remind yourself how much you care for him... but how much does he care for you?... you are only 15, he could get in a lot of trouble over the things you are saying... word gets around quick, and more often than not things are exaggerated... i'd cut your losses and get attatched to someone else your age, soon.
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Well, are you at least 18? If you are of legal age and he isn't married, I say to hell with what anyone thinks! Seriously. But don't let him take control of you, which tends to happen often with older men.
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