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Im 14 years old and i have a lil bit of a friendship problem... okay, so I have this friend. I've known her for a really long time. We used to hang out a lot. I mean, like all the time. It was always the two of us. It was great. But then, in middle school, she made some new friends,and I was out of the picture. She never called me as much as she used to, and we didn't hang out a lot anymore. Over the summer, I called her and asked her if she wanted to do something. she said no, but maybe the next day. So, when i called her the next day, she said that she already had plans. That was the last time I heard from her a 2 month period of time. All the other times she called me, I know it was because all of her other friends were busy. I was kinda the last resort... :( .... my mom told me to find some new friends. I have but I still like being friends with her. And to this day, she still isn't the same person that i used to know. Im worried that our friendship will fall apart. Can you please help me?
*Worried*
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To me, it already sounds like it has fallen apart. If your so called friend is gonna use you becuase she has no one else to hang out with then you shouldn't consider you and her friends. People do change when they go through different stages of their life like going to middle school. They meet knew people and their lives aren't as sheltered as it was in elementart school. People change and that are the facts of life. If you like being friends with her, then hang out with her when your bored. If you really wanna become friends again, confront her about it and just say " what happened?" Go out and find some new friends. meet new people.
Hope this helps
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*Leah
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