Question Posted Thursday September 2 2004, 6:44 pm
i was dating this guy from December 23rd to April 24th. he broke up with me because he said that he never got to see me enough. i thought i was in love with him and i would have given up everything for him. i was ready to give him my virginity. i didn't though (thank god) because i found out that he was going around and messing with other girls. i had begged him before i found that out to come back to me and he said when we start school i'll think about it because i still do love you. well about a month later i met this really amazing guy named tim and we've been together since may 22nd and i love him more than anything in the world. he treats me so great and he would never hurt me like that. i started school today and this girl that i've known since i was really little, she had gone to another elementry school than me, i found out that she might go out with him. i told her not to because of the things he did to me. she wouldn't believe me at all. so i told her if you want to go out with him, fine, but if you come crying to me telling me that he's been messing around with other chicks i'm just gonna say i told you so. she said okay. she told me later in the day that he still had feelings for me and now she's not sure if she wants to go out with him or not. what should i do to convince her not to go out with him? she won't believe anything i say! she thinks i'm just doing it because i'm jealous and i'm not. i love my boyfriend and i DO NOT like this other guy anymore.... Mods. sorry this was long....
XxSXyKaYlYnXx answered Thursday September 2 2004, 9:53 pm: WEll youve pretty much done all you could do but try talking to her again or help her to find another guy. Tell her that shes your friend and you just dont want her to get hurt like you did. Also mention that its not cuz your jealous b/c you have a b/f and you love him and everything- But If she still goes out w. him then let her soon she will have wished she listened to yah! [ XxSXyKaYlYnXx's advice column | Ask XxSXyKaYlYnXx A Question ]
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