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Mellisa, i am a 13 year old female and i am 5'32 weighing 150 pounds...yes i know im fat! my mom said its just baby fat and when i hit growth spirt i will loose it but its been a long time and its still here! soo how cdan i loose excessive weight fastly?? Also im an 8th grader and all the girls are very clickish. so if you would call a person a loner if they sometimes skip lunch, and recess in order to not be made fun of or be singled out then yea im a loner iduno y people dont like me i try soo hard t obe nice to everyone and fit in but i also dont know who i truly am people tell me to be myself but i dont know who i am! then thier of course is mister perfect! he is flawless, well to me, he is 5'5 brownish blonde hair brown eyes, perfect weight not soo skinny but not fat at all!! perfect family, honest, streight A student and total jock! and im really pretty if i didnt have my weight!! and i dont think he lieks me but i need him because i truly love him, we grew up together and it is love i dont feel this way about any other guy! .....im soo lost and confused please help me! im soo depressed!!
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Hey hun..im in the same boat your in, only worse. Im so sorry your going through this. Yeah, im really overweight ..but i still have friends. I think its horrible that you skip lunch and recess just to escape being made fun of. I have a big group of friends who accept me for ME..and thats why i love them all so much!
-I suggest you go to lunch and recess..make some friends! Your 13..so yeah a lot of kids that age are still immature and mean. (there still are some at age 15
I know what it feels like to be teased about your weight..its the most horrible feeling ever.Its ok..when i was 13 i was still seeing who my friends were and where i fit in. You`ll find your place also..if people make fun of you dont take it...cuz they`ll just do it again until you stand up for yourself! If people in your school wont be friends with you just because of your size..then thats bs and they dont deserve you. You deserve a great group of friends like i have!
-As for the guy..if hes your childhood friend then
you should feel comfortable talking to him. Tell him you like him..but you dont want ur friendship ruined. If he doesnt like u back..then hes missing out on a great relationship..but continue to be his friend. Hes there for you when you need him..its better to have him as a friend then as nothing at all! Your going to find a great guy..even i did and im bigger than you are. Dont give up..dont be depressed..just be YOU! (you`ll find out who you really are eventually hun)
until then..LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST!!
Hope i helped..let me know if u got anything else on your mind :)
-melissa
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