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heyy i saw you were rated very high so maybe you can help me =] okay theres this guy i like and i know he likes me too. a few days ago he asked me out and of course i said yes ! but like 2 or 3 days later we had broken up cause i guess we didnt really know each other well enough.. so during the school year we want to. so the day after i go to the movies with my cousin and my bff and there he is. we both waved and smiled but i know i like him and i know he likes me and i dont understand why we cant get to know each other better by going out ? maybe he feels the same or no because he was mostly the one who said he doesnt know me well enough, even though he told me he still likes me. idk please help lol
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Hey, aww thanks, I'm glad you decided to post a question!! I'll try to help!
I really don't think he's ready for a relationship just yet...because usually you'll want to know the person very well before you get into something. Either that or he may be afraid of commitment and he doesn't want to date anyone right now for a long period of time. But there is something you can do about this. You can let him know you support his choice and you can just be "friends" for now. If he is smart he will appreciate your support and respect for him. Ask him if you can hang out a lot and get to know each other. That way he won't feel like he's with a total stranger. Comfort is very important in a relationship. So if you build up trust and comfort you both will feel like you can talk about anything. Right now he must not be feeling comfortable around you, and that is something that you should work on (making him feel comfortable around you). He might act like he is sometimes, but often time guys will act out for you. It might not be exactly what it seems to be. Once you both feel like you're ready to go out as a couple you will both feel right. If one of you feels out of place then the relationship wouldn't feel right too. Just give him time right now, he might be really confused. You can't make him go into a relationship sooner than he wants unless he agrees to it. Take time out and become friends. And then he will really what an amazing girl you are and ask you out again! And this time it will be the right time!!! =D Good luck with everything! He will come around! Love Always, Mandee
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