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this afternoon i was out with my boyfriend and we were sitting in his car, making out. well, things were getting kinda heavy and i thought, "i dont want to do this," but instead of saying that i proceeded to have sex with him. i'm really scared that i might get pregnant. i'm really scared. what should i do?
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First of all, you should never have sex if you're not totally comfortable. If he made you feel uncomfortable, or if you felt as if you were being pressured to do something you didn't want to do, there's a huge problem somewhere.
But this is in the past and you can't change it. Now for current problems.
If you're scared that you're pregnant, that most likely means that you had unprotected sex. Which, of course, is not cool in the least. If you did have unprotected sex, I hope that your guy "pulled out" -- that is, removed his penis from you before he had an orgasm. That gives you even less to worry about.
If you used a condom or were on birth control, or he pulled out, you don't have a lot to worry about, but there's still definitely a chance. I'd suggest seeing a doctor as soon as possible -- especially if you begin to show symptoms of pregnancy (the first sign is usually missing a period).
Another important thing to do is have a talk with your boyfriend. Talk about what the two of you would do if you are pregnant -- are you financially and emotionally stable enough to raise a baby? Would he take a part in the child's life? Would you rather have an abortion or place your child up for adoption? It's very important to talk to your boyfriend about these things.
If you begin to suspect that you're pregnant, or have an STD, you should talk with your parents, and a doctor. They can help you figure out what needs to be done in order to keep you healthy and happy.
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