Alright here it goes.
I'm not sure what i'll get out of this but hopefully something helpful. I really like this girl that recently went to college. She is really cool and we hang out a lot, but she doesnt feel the same way for me as i feel for her. I know that she knows how i feel about her through other people that slip, but i just feel like i need to tell her in person to her face. For some reason i think that it might change her opinion of me. She has a boyfriend though, and she really seems to like him a lot. All i really want is for her to just be happy, and i will do anything to keep it that way. Should i tell her and risk my heart getting crushed by hearing the only words that could ever truely crush me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Lauren4977 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 12:16 am: Well it sounds like you really like this girl, but to be honest, you have the odds against you. If shes gone to college and has a boyfriend then you have a lot of obstacles to get around, but you should try. It sounds like yall are close so she has to have some feelings for you and who knows, maybe if you tell her in person what you really feel, then she may realize that those friendship feelings she has felt for so long, arent just feelings for another friend, but something more than that. It a risk you have to take, remember there are always risks you must take when it comes to your feeling and youre heart will be broken many many times in your life, but you will get over it! Good luck! [ Lauren4977's advice column | Ask Lauren4977 A Question ]
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