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Hey ya'll! My name is Lauren, im 16 and from down South! I love to give adice on pretty much anything-so if you have a question, ask and I'll do my best to answer! Thanks and Hope I can help you!

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I'm not sure what i'll get out of this but hopefully something helpful. I really like this girl that recently went to college. She is really cool and we hang out a lot, but she doesnt feel the same way for me as i feel for her. I know that she knows how i feel about her through other people that slip, but i just feel like i need to tell her in person to her face. For some reason i think that it might change her opinion of me. She has a boyfriend though, and she really seems to like him a lot. All i really want is for her to just be happy, and i will do anything to keep it that way. Should i tell her and risk my heart getting crushed by hearing the only words that could ever truely crush me?

Well it sounds like you really like this girl, but to be honest, you have the odds against you. If shes gone to college and has a boyfriend then you have a lot of obstacles to get around, but you should try. It sounds like yall are close so she has to have some feelings for you and who knows, maybe if you tell her in person what you really feel, then she may realize that those friendship feelings she has felt for so long, arent just feelings for another friend, but something more than that. It a risk you have to take, remember there are always risks you must take when it comes to your feeling and youre heart will be broken many many times in your life, but you will get over it! Good luck!

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Me and my boyfriend of two years just recently split up after having a huge fight. I really care a lot about him, I wouldnt say im in love because i havent had much experience with other guys so i dont actually know what love is i dont think, but i still really care about him deeply, and want him back. Hes been seeing other people, not dating as in boyfriend and girlfriend, but hanging out with other girls trying to find someone knew. We talk a lot still but just as friends-im scared to tell him i dont want it to be that way, but i dont-but i just want your advice on what to do. Should i try and when him back? or let things run their course?

I can sort of relate to what you're going through and I know it's really hard on you right now with the break up and it sounds like you werent exactly the one who wanted all of this to happen, but there are more guys out in this world besides the one youre talking about, maybe you should try and meet other people to for a little while. Now, im not saying to go out and find someone to date right away, but someone to help keep your mind off of your guy and to help in getting over him, and moving on to someone who is 10 times better than that guy could EVER be, i know theres someone like that somewhere. But if you do want your guy back bad enough, then try talking to him about your feelings and see what he says. Hope i could help you and good luck!

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