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ok im 16 and i was best friends with this girl and it always seemed like she liked every guy i liked.. i really liked this kid and of course she liked him too and he liked me but he didnt think i liked him so he asked her out instead.. she started to ignore all her friends for him and now she has no one but him practically... they have been dating for almost 8 months and he isnt "allowed" to hang out with any other girls because she will get mad but lately he has been hanging out with me again behind her back and he says he likes me and he always talks about "us" (me and him) and when he breaks up with his girlfriend how he wants to be with me.. i like him but i dont know what i should do because i think that it looks really bad on my part... if he breaks up with her should i go out with him or no? whoever he picks- me or her someone will get hurt in the end.. so i just dont know what to do.. please help sorry its so long and confusing can you please tell me like.. exactly what to say to him? thanks
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heyy hun! umm ok lets see...lotsa problems on this 1!! haha. ok umm about ur friend tell b like "ok i no were good friends n all so u shuld understand where im commin from wen i say this but it kinda bothers me wen u always like the same guys i do, think if sum1 did tht 2 u, it doesnt feel too godo does it?" n she might get mad but she'll get over it if shes a real friend!! but u gotta tell her how ur feeling. about the guy, think of it this way, if hes talking to you about a relationship n sayin he likes u n all WHILE HE HAS A GF, why wouldnt he say tht 2 sum1 else while he was dating you? im jus sayin..sounds kinda low on his part! so if u doeventually go out with him, just be careful! if you wanna go out w. him is completely up 2 u, it might look bad but who cares wut other ppl think, the relationship would be between u n him, NO ONE ELSE. but tlk it over with ur friend after they break up n see wut she has 2 say, but in the end just do what you think is right n just have fun! if u end up saying no 2 him just say "i just dont think this is gunna work between us" n if u say yes then just say w.e comes 2 ur mind!! hope i helped n keep me posted on this 1!!
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