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hi im a 16(almost) year old female and i have a problem with a guy that i like, and i was possibly my first love. we used to be very veyr good friends like talk to each other every day and we were jsut really relaly close, then we started dating for about a month then i broke i t off becuase i was scared of ruining the friendship, well about 4 months later i realized i had very strong feelings for him and we dated again for a fairly long time and we broke up becuase of a really big missunderstanding. we still talked for a while then over time it faded away and now we hardly ever talk. the problem being...i sitll very much have feelings for him. he was such a huge part of my life we were so so close and im having trouble with him being gone from my life. we lost our virginity to each other abot a month before we broke up. sometimes when i see him at school i just get this feeling, like i want to be in his arms again but what i was wondering was is there anything i can do to make myself feel better or to get him talking to me or something agian?
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Ok.. u owe it to yourself to try to reach out to him. If you don't, you'll regret it. But you have to prepare yourself for both reactions... either acceptance or rejection. The best thing to do in this case is to be honest with him about your feelings and see what he thinks or feels. No matter what his answer is.. you have to learn to accept it and if it's "i don't want to talk to you ever again" you have to grieve the relationship and move on. It will be hard.. but there is nothing else to do short of making urself look like a fool and run after him. If you guys were close friends you should be able to work it out.. however, speaking from experience here... best friends who get together most of the times does not work if you start out as best friends. It's the old saying.. friendship in love always.. love in friendship NEVER. So.. reach out to him and see what happens! Let me know back how things work!! I hope this helps. Have a good one and take care.
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