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Hi. I have a HUGE problem and really superly extremly need your assistance. It would be GREATLY appreciated. Well, you see, my friend, dear friend, extremly close friend, whom I care so much about, is having a few technical difficulties. She says that when she grows up she's going to win the lottery, and when she does, she's going to get a transplant and become a male. (For the time being, let's just refer to the 'she' as Kara). So now I've just recently been informed that Kara is bisexual. I'm afraid I'm going to lose one of my best friends, but I feel uncomfortable sleeping over her house, and changing in front of her, like we used to. Now that I'm older, and have gone through puberty, I'm afraid she'll look at me. What should I do?? Please help me!!!
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Why are you so afraid of sleeping over her house? Are you afraid that she'll rape you while you sleep? I highly doubt that anything will happen, but if you're THAT concerned about it, you could always go up to her and just say, "I support your sexuality, but just to let you know, I'm straight." Something like that...I'm thinking you can put it in better words. Anyways, I'll bet she'll laugh it off, because I doubt that she'd want to push the best friend thing over the limit. And if she does try to, all you have to say is something lik,e "Sorry, but I value our friendship too much." And the geting changed infront of eachother thing...What's so hard about going into another room and getting changed? But if you don't want to do that, then just turn around while you're getting changed.
But chances are she won't want to make anything happen, because hopefully she values the friendship too much.
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