hey, i am a guest and i saw you answer a lot of sex questions so could you please answer mine? i spent the night at my friend's house last night. she is bi and i'm straight. well we both took showers and she has a big water bed so we shared it. and we both masturbate a lot and are open about it, and i don't know why but she started doing it. so i was kinda bored anyway so so did i. well she likes to rub her breasts when she does it so she took her shirt off, and started rubbing them. so she said it felt good and that is hould do it too. so i did. and so i was rubbing and fingering and then she reaches over and she starts to rub my vagina, and it felt really good but i got kinda embarassed. she took my finger out and started to finger me and then we did a lot of stuff. like 69 and i fingered her and ate her out, and it was so amazing and i loved it. but i don't have feelings for any girls, i don't think they're sexy, and i don't like lesbian porn. but i do like guys, and straight porn and everything, so why did i like it so much last night? (btw we are both 14)
I would be open to the possibility of you being bi or lesbian, but it's equally likely that you're straight. Only you know what you really enjoy & who you are attracted to, and sexuality is a very fluid thing.
The only physical thing I would be concerned about here is whether or not you might have contracted an STD from your friend. Emotionally, it might make your friendship awkward, especially if your friend ends up wanting a relationship you don't want to pursue.
Basically, I don't think you have anything to worry about. I don't think this makes you gay, but if you WERE gay there'd be nothing wrong with it. It sounds like experimentation between two friends, which is probably a lot more common than anyone would imagine. [ alisonmarie's advice column | Ask alisonmarie A Question ]
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