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Question Posted Sunday August 15 2004, 12:04 am

hey.. u know who i am weve talked b4 but i rather stay anonymous =\.. my dad died like a year ago and a year later my grandpa died.. and like i was so lost.. nd i was startin to get better i mean i still always thought about my dad & grandpa nd always was upset about it but i learned how to smile.. but now my cousin jus died.. nd im so lost.. lost then i ever have been b4.. i dont understand.. he was only 17 he jus turned 17.. nd like if im not with ne1 or on the phone with ne1 i jus start to cry nd i jus dont think i can make it again.. like im so tempted to kill myself.. i dunno wat to do.. im so like i cant even think straight =( help me

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ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Monday August 16 2004, 3:34 pm:
Hey hunnie,first of all I'm sorry it took me so long to answer you.I think I remember you hunnie.I'm so sorry to hear about your cousin.I just lost a friend who was 19 in a motorcycle accident,and I know it doesn't ever seem fair when someone that young dies.It's difficult to deal with a death in the family at any time,but when you're hit with so many it's a lot harder to deal with.But you have to remember sweetie that those who died do NOT want to see you so upset,and they certainly don't want you to hurt yourself in any way.You've got your whole life ahead of you and so many things to do and see!The hard thing to realize is that when these things happen it is out of our control.It sounds harsh but it's the old when it's your time it's your time.God is in charge of all of that.And I'm one who really believes that those who pass,are truly in a much better place,and that their passing happened for a reason,although it's not always clear.Killing yourself is never the answer.You take the time to notice all the beautiful and positive things in life,that you may never have noticed before.Cherish life,don't try and end it too soon!If you still have my AIM SN you can IM me and we'll talk!Take care sweetheart.You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.

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