ok I like these 2 guys (one my bf and the other not) well my bf (Blake) and
the other guy(Nick) hate each other ok the middle of june I went out w/ blake
and broke up w/ him to go out w/ nick then i broke up w/ nick cuz he was lying
and talkin to his x behind my back, then went back out w/ nick and he broke
up w/ me and asked me back out and I said yes so I
went out w/ nick for the
3rd time and then he broke up w/ me again (he said he was embarressed)
then Blake asked me back out and I'm going out w/ him
and now Nick wants me to break up w/ Blake to go back out w/ him in
secreet and I don;'t wanna keep it a scret but he does and Blake doesn't
know I ever went out w/ nick either but in june they got into a fist fight
@ church and yeah
and I don't know what to do should I go BACK out w/ nick or stay w/ blake I'm
bossy to both of them but can't tell them y (I can but don't know how
to say it cuz it's kinda embarressin y I'm mean to them) I trust Nick
more but blake is funnyer and nicer but they both have their tempers
but I don't know what to do I wanna tell them y I am so mean so they could jus be paitent
but ok here's what I don't wanna tell them but I think I prolly should I'm always
mean to them but I don't know how to tell them I got told i love u by 2 pple
one guy ment it and the other didn't the one that didn't i loved them back and
the one who loved me I didn't love him. he used to literally kick the crap outta
me b*cuz I couldn't say it back and I know he did love
me b*cuz that's how he grew up thinking love was his
dad did the same thing to his mom but I always had bruises and everything and
I tryed to stick up for myself but it just got worse so now I'm all like tense that someone
is gonna do it to me again he did that for a year 3 months and 8 days and then the day
he moved (middle of june) he gave me a black eye and a fat lip ( the boy was one of
my recent x's named cody)and now everytime I'm around Blake and Nick I get shakey and over protective nad being mean to them and I wanna know if I should tell them and which one I should date
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xObEaChbAyBiiOx answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 2:39 pm: hey babe..i would not go bak out with nick after the way he has treated you..u deserve better than that, dont ever let another guy treat you that way, get out of that relationship as soon as possible tell your parents and they will do somthing about it, stay with blake, it seems like hes really nice 2 you and he makes you laugh and thats good....i'm really sorry that all that happened 2 you with cody you didn't deserve 2 b treated that way... but not every guy is like that so juss tell blake wut happened and y you r the way you r and i'm sur he will understand and he'll probably tell u that he wouldnt ever do that 2 you and you can start 2 trust him even more with his re-assurance about it, good luck hun!i hope i helped you! -xoxo- kelsey [ xObEaChbAyBiiOx's advice column | Ask xObEaChbAyBiiOx A Question ]
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