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HeY i need a little advice. Kinda long but please read, I'll rate ya good! Alright there is this older guy I like....I'm 14 & he's 17(but ill be 15 soon, he's a little old I know but just keep readin). I liked him ALL summer & now we go to the same school. He broke up w/ his girlfriend that he's been dating for like ever. He thinks they need a break. So now that they broke up he is being a little more flirty with me. Like the other night he was trying to make my brother jealous @ the pool and he started hugging on me. Haha stupid me didn't hug him back but we talked later on and he promised he'd hug me again if I hugged him back! Of course I will...alrite well I also found out he asked my brother if he thought my parents would let him take me out. Of course my brother said NO but that's just cause he's protective. So today @ school I saw him & he pushed me into someone(haha) but then he was talkin to my friend so I just kinda started talkin to someone else & didn't say anything to him. When we left that hallway he was like thanks for talkin to me(in a joking way)And then i felt really bad....ok this is gettin long so I'm gonna try and end this. My problem is I feel like I'm shy around him!!!!!!...and I don't really know if he is flirting w/ me? Does it sound like it? Well I need some advice on how not to be shy around him(I feel so stupid cause I just smile like crazy when he's around) Please help ill rate awesome *signed, crushin*
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Lol, your story was just like mine before... Age doesn't matter girl, even though, the guy i liked was 18. Your brother is protective, just like mine was... It seems like he's being flirty with you, you should talk with him more often. All guys joke with not talking to them, just talk to him more and flirt with him and see what happens, and since he asked your brother if he could take you out, I think that he likes you lots!! :-)
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It sounsd like he really is liking you. Seriously age is just a number! Its the person he should care about! I am 15 and my boyfriend is 17... and my parents totally accept him. Bring this guy around your house just as friends... hang out with him and let your parents get use to the fact that hes older and stuff. ok about the shy stuff... DONT BE SHY! he obviously likes you! And guys love girls that smile like crazy. I dont really know how to tell you not to be shy because i've never really been shy. Just think of this he obviously likes you already so just open up and he'll like you like 10 times more! Guys like out going girls that like to be out there and have fun! So just keep that in your head when your around him. Best wishes to you and him. GOOD LUCK -holly- hope i helped
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well he does like you i can tell my ex bf used to do tht all the tyme b4 we got together.try not to be too shy becuz its only hugging i mean dont hold back on tht every1 needs hugs lol.i hope my advice helped you a lot.<333 carmen
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Never apologize for long questions! Details help me help you and Im one for details!Ok if you get all shy around him, it means your really falling for him. I think your ages are fine. Really... if your only like 2 years apart thats good and healthy. I know what your saying, you like the guy and you get all delerious,giggly, and bouncin around for no reason. I'll help you my best sweetie! Recognize first that you like him and you dont want to ruin things with shyness, the thought alone will make you speak up. Second off just say 'Dont mind me I get shy'. This way hes aware of the fact that no your not being a complete bitch, you just dont always know what to say. And honesty is good! About your brother.. hes just being protective, be greatful for that there are some guys who wouldnt give a crap if their sisters fell over and died... so hes a good sweet guy with a head on his shoulders... protectiveness! Its a sweet masculine thing! Haha.. i love guys like your brother. we need more of them. But anyway when this guy talks to you just remind yourself in your head... I NEED TO TALK... JUST BE WILD!!! And words will pour out. Its definetly a mental thing... which means its delt mentally. You should be loud and fun in no time.
Good luck sweetie!
Hope I helped!
BTW* TELL THIS GUY YOU LIKE HIM! YOU GUYS SEEM LIKE THE PERFECT PAIR!! Sooo good luck hun xoxo
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