Hi Summer. Gots a question for ya. Ok, see I got this friend who's a girl (I'm a guy) and she's really cool. She's sweet and nice and pretty and all. I like talking to her. Now I know she has a crush on me and I do too, just a lil one. But, I have a g/f and she has a b/f. So we respect each other. However, my friends and g/f are seeing something in this girl that makes them think this girl has more than a crush on me. Like the way she talks to me, the way she acts, and she seems to really like talking to me. Now I think it's just she's a good friend but how do I go about finding out if it were true? Any advice would be great!
(P.S. I don't plan on breaking up with my g/f if my friend likes me either, just so ya know, I'm just curious)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? sweetpinkgiggles3 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 7:14 pm: Hey. Well my friend (I think) Giggles welcome to the very complicated ways of a girl. Giggles. If you know she has a crush on you why are you asking me how to find out if she does? Giggles You are funny. Since you obviously aren't sure if she has a crush on you than just ask her falt out. I know it seems really direct but hey what have you got to loose? And nto to be rude but how come when people say they have a crush on someone they always say "just a little one"? Just curious. Giggles. I am sorry but in my opinion it is fine to have crushes on other people whiel you have a boyfriend or girlfriend as long as you don't act on them. Does that make sense or do I just sound like a fucking dumb bitch? I hope you two always respect each other. Your girlfriend and friends are protective which is understandable but if she does have mroe than a crush on you what are they going to do about it? Be pissed off for a little while big deal. I hate that. People get to protective. Your friends can't do shit if she has more than a crush on you so why worry yourself about it. It is called TRUST. You say she is a good friend while good friends like talking to their friends. Giggles Liek take me for an example. I LOVE talking to certain people. It makes me sooo happy and think everything is going to be alright. It doens't mean I have a crush on them or do I? No kidding I don't. I love talkign to certain peopl ejust because they make me really comfortable and umm happy? Giggles And you obviously think there is something more than just good friends going on because you are righting to me. Giggles but don't panic. You just need to ask her straight out. Trust your friends. And not to be a total bitch event hough this is going to sound like it YOUR FRIENDS (All of them) SHOULD COME BEFORE ANY GIRLFRIEND OR BOYFRIEND ALWAYS!!! Even though your girlfriend is your friend you need to think about all your friends not just one. Maybe you should also tell your good friend that you have a little thing for her it may make her feel better when you tell her that you aren't going to break up with your girlfriend. Also, for once think about yourself... Do you like talking to your friend and if you do than don't let anyone stop you. Not even your girlfriend if she tries to because that means she is insecure and not the right one for you. I hope I helped. Keep me posted. Thanx hugs n kiss*s xoxo *Summer
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