Hi. Im 16 and I'm pregnent. My boyfriend and I had sex 5 months ago and I got pregnant from that. My family is in distress and my sisters and brothers can't even look at me now that I'm starting to get a little fatter. But the problem mostly is my boyfriend. His name is Jamie and well I really love him. When I told him I was pregnant he said he'd always be there for me and the next day he came over and said his parents now kicked him out of their house and my parents said he could come stay with us until he can find a job and apartment but I know Jamie isnt happy. It's hard to finsih high school and take care of a kid. What can I do to make my boyfriend happy even when our lives are totally going down the fricken drain? Please help me!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? blackmamba answered Thursday August 5 2004, 4:08 am: i honestly don't know what to say. i feel for you, i really do, but this is a big deal. i dont think he is going to be happy for a while, because this is some tough shit. both of you will probably be down until you see your beautiful child and until everyone accepts the fact that you guys are parents. finishing high school should probably be the last of your worries right now--you are having a child and need to have finances to keep it. try to be positive for him and show him you arent scared (even if you are) and tell him you love him and are glad you are going through this with him. [ blackmamba's advice column | Ask blackmamba A Question ]
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