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well, i have this friend that while she was in 7th grade had a bunch of 8th grade friends. and she spent her time hanging out with them and not with the girls in her grade. well, when they moved into highschool and us into 8th grade she ran to the girls in her grade that she had ignored the previous year. we all became good friends and hung out with each other and everything and now that we're moving into highschool she has totally ditched us for her older friends. now, that story shows that obviously she was using us for the year that she didnt have her older friends and was going to ditch us when she could once again hang out with them. does that not sound wrong. everyone else thinks so but i would like to know your opinion. i mean if we were really friends she wouldnt have used us for one year and forgotten about us the next. id really appreciate it if you would tell me your opinion about the situation because all of ours i think is pretty mutual.
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ok well, the same thing happend with me. When I was in 7th grade I only hung out with the 8th grade girls and then they all left when I got to 8th grade. I hung out with my 9th grade friends for a little while in the beginning but we ended up drifting apart because we all were meeting new people and our friendsip faded fast. I had always talked to the girls in my grade, we just never hung out. They never called me and I never called them. I ended up being pretty good friends with one of the girls but we were so different from eachother that it was just an odd friendship sometimes. None of the girls really attemted to im me online or ask me to do stuff very often. So i didn't see the need either. I'm not going to make someone be my friend. After school ended, they all just basically stopped talking to me period. So I did the same with them. My friends that were older than me are the ones who really went out of their way to do stuff with me. So I can't really tell you my opinion about ya'lls situation because I don't know exactly what went on. Maybe it was just like mine? idk I couldn't tell ya. But why don't you ask her to do stuff with ya'll? Maybe she was the one that felt left out all along because ya'll already had a "group" so she never thought she fit in as good as the others. So talk to her, ask her to do stuff with ya'll, tell her you miss her! Chances are she feels the same. :o)
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