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Hey you answered my question about sex and my relationship it went something like this:
Ok like, my boyfriend and I have been having sex for a while now...
I don't really know what to do. It's really hard to talk to him and I have also been thinking about breaking up with him. I talked to him about taking a "break" but he got really upset and we argued for hours. But now we are still seeing eachother. And I can never talk to him because he won't listen....
ANYWAYS I really like how you answered it and I wanted to contiune asking your advice on this same situation.
It's really hard talk to him. He just gets really mad and I don't know how to get out of it now. There is an age difference between us and he says that if I were to break up with him, I should do it now...because, he claims, that in 5 years i'll still be "young" and he'll be "old" and with out somebody...but when I try he gets REALLY mad. So I feel really trapped....Help again?
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Okay, Let's see...He really needs to know that girls are always more mature than guys. (hence the reason I always dated guys at least a year older than me, lol)
You may not have been alive as long as he has, but it doesn't mean you're younger. (I maintain that age is a state of mind, not being) You are, in reality, probably more mature than he is, judging by the way he's handling this.
You do need to spend some time away from him and decide if you want to stay with a guy who seems to be focusing on sex as the main part of the relationship.
Does he realize that's what he's doing?
I hardly EVER say this, but I really think you should think a little more about breaking it off with him. He's handling this very childishly, whereas you sound pretty mature and able to handle a relationship like this.
You might have to get a little bitchy to get through to him. I suggest, once you've made your decision, that you sit him down (do this in person so he can't hang up or sign off) and tell him he's going to listen to what you have to say and not interrupt. You'll tell him when you're done.
Then speak your mind and tell him what's going to happen.
I really hope everything works out. If you need more help/more specific help, you can IM me - SirenCytherea on AIM.
-Siren =)
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