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Well, ya see, i kinda have to break his heart cuz....
Yeah, sorry dude, but this topic is not music related. It has to do with my love life *sing-songy tone* and this will be the last time i bother....or will it? Anyhoo, I'm only 15, i'll be 16 in december, but i look alot older than i look,and yes, i am always full clothed, some people think i'm in college, i look like i'm in my early 20s, so of course, i attract guys in their early 20s, i don't do anyhting with them, i always tell them my age, so they don't get the wrong impression, or get in trouble. See, during the technofest here in detroit, i met a guy named mike, ( this is gonna take a while), mike is a "male entertainer" who is 22, hes cool, but he gets the message that i ain't gonna put out. we still talk...mainly flirt, but thats about it, no touching.
Then theres this other guy, urijah, hes 28. hes a year older than my older brother, he worships me, but i really don't want anyhting to do with him beyond a friendship level...i really don't want anything to do with him at all, now that i think about it. i don't know how to tell him that....i mean i do, i'm a very blunt person, but i've never broken anyones heart before, and i don't want him to be angry, or upset.
Now there is this other guy shawn, i like him alot, hes 19, and hes gonna be teaching me guitar lessons soon. I think shawn liked me ( ya' know liked me "liked" me) until i told him that i'm only a junior and that i'm 15, he was smart enough to back, cuz he knows i'm jail bait, but, once again i would never do anything with him, i'm a prude, and i've seen many girls my age pregnant... what do i do? sorry this was so long, but i need in the perspective of a guy. My other guy friends don't really understand, and i've read the advice you give and it seems logical...so a little help here?
Much Love from a confused clown,
Victoria
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Oh no! Don't compare old advice with new! You may get disappointed. Anyway, we always make fun of guys who desire girls 10 years younger than them. Personally, I'd feel a little awkward dating someone 3 years younger than me. Oh god, I'm going to repeat myself, but everyone breaks someone's heart. At least I've never met someone who hasn't. Besides, I think it's okay to break a guy's heart whose 28 when your 15. And I like that you're blunt, it's the best way to get something across. Other than that, I don't really think you have to do much of anything. I don't think it would be wise to start a relationship with any of these guys, but then again I don't really "know" any of these guys. It's always dangerous having guy friends much older than you, most guys I know are assholes in more ways than one. Even a lot of my friends are. That's about all I can say without sounding big brother-ish, feel free to bother me whenever you want.
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