I like this guy a lot. And he likes me to. The thing is, he wants to have sex. Ive told him im not a virgin but i really am. and now he thinks i will have sex with him but im kinda scared since its my first time. but i cant tell him the truth. should i have sex with him? i really want to, i jus dont know what im doing. what should i do, besides tell him im a virgin???
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Ask_Anything answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:30 pm: well, first off, if you just " like this guy a lot" maybe you should wait. to do something like have sex is what i consider to have to wait until you feel like you can trust someone with yourself and be able to tell them anything you want ((and 100% love them)).but thats just my motto... if your scared, thats not good. you should confront him no matter how much you dont want to. if you dont talk and he starts doing things you dislike or arent ready for, you could be in a situation that is overwhelming. you should definitly tell him your a virgin, because your right on track there. im not an expert on this exact situation, but if i were you, that would be how i'd handle it.
PS: this is one topic you should definitly ask a trusted adult about. no doubt about it.
i hope things work out in the end, and thanks for asking my opinion! [ Ask_Anything's advice column | Ask Ask_Anything A Question ]
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