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what should I do?
I just turned 40 this yr and so did my boyfriend we have been dating for 7 months. A month he asked me to move in with him. He has lived alone for 10yrs. We had a lot of passion in our kisses and a really good sex thing going on until I moved in and it has dwindled down to he is loving and sweet but he only gives me peck on the lips now a little love pat on the behind and doesn't want to have sex (but he sleeps all snuggled up next to me at night). Plus when we do have sex, about once a week, it is great and then all of the sudden he loses his hard on. I tried to talk to him about it and he thinks it is because he knows he can have me whenever he wants me.....does that make sense? I am starting too feel rejection from this. He said he looks at other women and thinks that no one can compair to me. I think he is feeling like I have invaded his personal space and he is resenting me for it. But he says he doesn't want me to move out that he loves me. strange isn't it.....I definitely need some advice.
Thanks
Jules
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It sounds like you really want a passionate relationship and he doesn't. I don't think he's resenting you, although if you're getting that vibe I suppose it's a possibility. I think he just wants a comfortable pattern, he wants to play house, he doesn't need the passion that you need. If that makes you uncomfortable, move out. Or just go with it... do you get bored a lot in your relationships? Maybe you value drama and conflict too much, and settling down is too scary for you.
Either way good luck. He doesn't sound like to terrible a guy, you just have a ways to go to understand one another.
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